What Are You Working On?

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I started playing golf when I was 12 years old and became part of a golf team when I entered High School. I continued to play in College and gave up competitive golf a few years after that. The good players I knew were always working on something. If a good player was a teammate or friend I could even ask them what it was. When I was good I was always working on a few things. The Christian life should be similar. We should always be working on something or even several things.

I recently watched a sermon my Dad preached titled “Our Part in Sanctification | Unmasked (Part 2)” from 2020 at Washington Avenue Christian Church in Amarillo, TX. That sermon is the inspiration for this post. It covers 2 Peter 1:1-11. In the sermon my dad compares living the Christian life to being on a great journey and recognizes that all believers should have spiritual growth on their journey. I was challenged and easily applied it to my life.

In verses 1-4 the Apostle Peter tells believers our faith is precious and God has given us everything we need for a Godly life, which includes his great promises. Some scholars estimate there are between 5,000 and 7,500 direct promises from God in the Bible. One of my favorite promises is in Isaiah 40:31; “but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

In verses 5-9 Peter challenges us to add to our faith goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, godliness, mutual affection, and love. Having these will make us effective and not forget about our salvation. In verses 10-11 Peter encourages us to put in the effort to confirm our calling and ensure we will be welcomed by the Lord into eternity one day.

There is my summary (layperson’s flyover) of what the verses say. I hope those interested will read the verses and watch the sermon. I placed the link for the sermon below. It goes into more depth and is very practical.

Some of us need to be reminded of God’s promises. Some of us need to be reminded that God has given us everything we need to live a Godly life. I hope it’s obvious that we all need to work on the things the Apostle Peter listed. When I was young I thought I would grow up one day and have most things figured out. That of course did not happen.

To be honest and transparent with you, I am working on my self-control. I get angry too easily and I need to be more patient with the people I love. I’m going to start there and see what happens.

What are you working on?

Robert Mink Jr.

My Mother-In-Law

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My Mother-In-Law died last month (in September of 2026). Jeanette Sweeney was 69 years old. Her funeral will likely be in January. She had some common health issues, but was relatively healthy (or seemed to be) until she suddenly had a hard time sending text messages and making phone calls in early August. My Wife and I live in Texas, which is far from her Mother who lived in Lake Havasu City, Arizona. We tried to contact her and discovered she had been hospitalized in Henderson, NV. Soon after that, we discovered she had 3 inoperable brain tumors (glioblastomas).

I watched from a close distance as my wife coordinated things from our home in West Texas. We continued to work and care for our 2 year old daughter. My wife’s two brothers were able to get out there from Tennessee and Nebraska to see their mother. The youngest was by her side when she passed. My sister-in-law who lives in Boston, MA, was in close communication until their mother’s passing. Jeanette died relatively quickly after her diagnosis.

Observing death in my experience is never pleasant and rarely provides the closure we desire. Dying can take a long time, a short time, or any amount of time of course. In a sense we are all dying. It is often traumatic and memorable when a loved one dies. I am not an expert by any means, but deal often with death. I find it can be kind of manageable when those who die are people you don’t know and they aren’t young. I acknowledge that is not what most people experience with death. When we are confronted with death, I believe we can only rely on our faith in Jesus Christ to help get us through it. We should also pray for those who don’t have our faith.

My Mother-in-law and I were not close and did not speak often. Even though she never had extra money, she gave some of the best and most thoughtful gifts (and a lot of them!). My wife’s relationship with her was far from perfect; no significant relationships are. I know they loved each other and every family dynamic is different. I will also admit I said the occasional Mother-In-Law joke that probably wasn’t even funny. Jeanette Sweeney birthed and raised my wife, my two brothers-in-law, and my sister-in-law. My wife is my favorite person and I love all of four of them. I am filled with gratitude even though my Mother-In-Law is gone. I should have been more grateful when she was alive and told her about it.

I hope you will join me in honoring her memory. Also, please pray for my wife and her siblings as they deal with the loss of their Mother.

My Dad preached on death at the end of his ministry at Discovery Christian Church in Moreno Valley, CA, in 2014. The link is below the picture if you want to view it.

Robert Mink Jr.

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zG8SwFUuE-s

The Father is the Son’s First Hero

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I recently asked my Mom what she thought about me trying to start up my Dad’s blog again and she gave me her blessing. My Dad started this blog in June of 2015 and originally planned to post one or two times a week after publishing his first book. In the first post he said, “My passion and dream is to write honestly about the Christian life, the Bible, and the Church.” His last post on here was in October of 2022.

For those who may not know, my Dad died last year in September of 2025 after battling an illness at the age of 74. I want to continue writing this blog for the same reasons he started it, but I also want to write to continue his legacy. Inevitably, in doing so, I will include some of my own thoughts, experiences, and opinions. I hope that’s okay and I hope people will want to read what I have to say about my Dad, my family, the Bible, and other things. To start, I want to try to post one or two times a month instead of weekly. We will see if anyone reads them or wants to.

My Dad was a pastor for over 50 years. He lived in 3 states, served in 4 churches, and wrote 2 books. I have access to hundreds of his sermons and to a lot of his books. My Dad was an avid reader and a Bible scholar; I am neither. I was close with my Dad, but not as close as we should have been because of the way I am sometimes. My Dad had flaws, but was a great man. I still have a long way to go if I want to be like him. I currently live in West Texas and I have a beautiful wife and daughter. I also live in close proximity to my Mom, my Sister, and my Nephews.

I also promise any readers that I will try to be more interesting or at least funny in future posts!

Lastly regarding the title…..I think the Father is a Son’s first hero if he does it right. That is certainly true for me. Please let me know your thoughts and reach out if you want to here on WordPress (and subscribe), by email at rmmeven@gmail.com, or on Facebook.

WE ALL NEED HOPE

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Last week I came across a statement by Dallas Willard that was both comforting and encouraging. You may or may not know anything about Dallas Willard, but Dallas was an outstanding Christian teacher/speaker and writer. I had the privilege of hearing him in person more than once, but also took the time to read some of his books. I was never disappointed by what I read.

Like people in general, Christians are not perfect and make mistakes as everyone does. Some of our mistakes are lesser than others, and some are greater than others. The greater the mistake the more damage can be the result.

The observation made by Dallas Willard I recently read was not just encouraging and comforting, but also an expression I felt could be helpful for people who have been burdened by some long time mistakes and needed what he said. In such a positive way from his spirituality and his knowledge of the Bible, Willard affirmed “There is nothing that can’t be changed in our lives, especially in terms of grace.”

Like so many of us who call ourselves Christians, I rejoice in the truth that by His grace God can change our lives as we submit to Him. I hope all of us who have walked with Jesus as our Savior and Lord realize some things need to be changed and can be changed by God’s grace. As the old hymn affirms, God’s grace indeed is amazing.

If you are so inclined I challenge and encourage you to invite God to change things in your life that need to be changed by His grace. I know I need God to change some things in my life that would by His grace draw me closer to Him and cultivate my walk with Him. Dallas Willard’s affirmation that “There is nothing that can’t be changed in our lives” is encouraging and assuring for those of us who have committed to be children of God and followers of Jesus.

I hope these thoughts have strengthened and encouraged your faith as well as giving you some things to ponder. Feel free to leave a comment below.

FEELING NOSTALGIC AND MELANCHOLY (A REFLECTION)

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Jan and I went to a Beach Boys concert last Friday and we really enjoyed hearing again many of their songs from years ago. There were ten musicians on the stage, but only two of them were with the Beach Boys when they began in 1961.

I was only 10 when they launched their band but I have always appreciated them and their songs and music. Their concert this past Friday was the third time through the years Jan and I have seen them in concert and we appreciated all three of them.

Listening to them again in concert left me feeling nostalgic. The definition of feeling nostalgic is “thinking fondly of a past time or condition.” I’m 71 and often feel nostalgic when I am reminded about things in the past and remember them fondly.

Having lived in Southern California for 30 years I was especially taken by the two songs “California Dreaming” and “I Wish they all could be California Girls.” As a pastor for many years the song “God Only Knows” was also an important reminder.

It’s not just the music of the Beach Boys that make me feel nostalgic, but also a lot of music by other groups and individuals from years ago. Nor is music the only remembering that makes me feel nostalgic. Sometimes talking with longtime friends and/or family I also end up feeling nostalgic.

Another word to reinforce nostalgic is melancholy.  As an adjective melancholy is about being sad and pensive about a longed-for past time or condition. It’s not just music from the past that gets my attention, but also people, places, and vacations from the past.

I don’t think I’m the only one who sometimes thinks about music, vacations, places, and people from years ago. I don’t squelch those times when I am sad and pensive thinking about my past. Nor do I squelch my feelings when I think fondly about my past.

Being reminded of things in our past and remembering what they meant to us and still mean to us is something that happens to me quite often. Even though we cannot return to those times in our past that we cherish, we can remind ourselves and remember times in our lives that were enjoyable and exciting.

Most readers of these thoughts of mine have probably heard the classic song/hymn “Precious Memories.” Some artists who covered the song include George Jones, Johnny Case, Emmylou Harris, Jim Reeves, Dolly Parton, Elvis Presley, and others.

Hopefully all of us have precious memories that mean much to us. On the other hand, we also have memories that remind us of mistakes, loss, and pain. At the age of seventy-one I have both precious as well as painful memories.

I tag this blog a reflection and one of the definitions of reflection is serious thought or consideration. I hope what I have written prompts some of your own reflection.

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WHO ARE YOU BECOMING?

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Most of us probably remember at least one thing we wanted to become when we were moving into young adulthood. Many of us became what we wanted to become and others realized there was something else we wanted to become.

Earlier today I read the manuscript of a sermon by Ken Shigematsu. This preacher’s sermon was five full typed pages and one of the best, most challenging, thoughtful, encouraging, and attention getting sermons I have read the last several months.

Shigematsu used Romans 8:28 for his text and not only delivered the goods on Romans 8:28, he also included a variety of observations that got my attention and provoked some honest thinking about my own life and what lies ahead.

Shigematsu shared with those who heard the sermon or read the manuscript that “through COVID-19, I have been reminded that I do not control my life.” He continued “COVID-19 has shown me that I am utterly and completely dependent on the living God. If I think I am in control of things that is merely a pleasant illusion.”

Shigematsu’s sermon conclusion takes an entire page and gives to both listeners as well as readers a refreshing and instructive wrap to his sermon.

As much as I appreciated Shigematsu’s sermon, one brief affirmation in the last paragraph before his conclusion challenged me. His most powerful observation got my attention and has given me lots to think about when he reminds us “the central drama of our life is who we are becoming.”

I’ve been a Christian for most of my life and have had my ups and downs when it comes to who I am becoming. Hopefully I will keep on becoming more and more the Christian God wants me to be.

Shigematsu’s sermon title is Hope in a Time of Anxiety. If you can find it I think you will be blessed by it.

THE LORD’S SUPPER

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The Lord’s Supper is an act of worship that Jesus himself established and encourages us to regularly participate.

It is often called “Communion” (or Holy Communion) and emphasizes that we are in fellowship with God and our fellow worshippers. Connecting with and speaking with God is primary–but in communion we are reminded we are all part of the body of Christ.

In the Lord’s Supper we are not merely eating–we are eating together. We are in fellowship with Christ, and we have fellowship with one another.

When we share in the Lord’s Supper we need to be reminded that our host is Jesus. He invites and welcomes us to His table.

The Lord’s Supper is a reminder. We need to be reminded of what Jesus has done for us through his death on the cross. Perhaps the most important thing we need to remember is that God and Jesus forgive us.

Usually the Lord’s Supper takes place in a church building, but it is not limited to such a building. Some of the most meaningful times of communion for me have taken place in camps or on retreats outside in God’s creation.

Usually when I post a blog it also has a picture. I haven’t been able to figure out how to add a picture, but I am working on it. Be patient with me.

TIME TO RESTART WRITING MY BLOG

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At the end of June in 2015 I starting writing weekly blogs. I appreciated those who signed up to receive the weekly blogs and the response of many to the blogs encouraged me. Not everyone who responded was positive, but I was both challenged and encouraged by the remarks of some of my readers who did not agree with everything I wrote.

I wrote weekly blogs for seven years and stopped writing April 21, 2022. Now as we near the end of summer 2022 I’m thinking ahead and planning to start writing weekly blogs again in the next few weeks.

If you were receiving the blogs before April 21 I hope you will receive this update and continue to read my blogs. If you have not received my blogs in the past you will be able to request receiving them as I begin writing again.

I hope readers will feel comfortable making observations and asking questions as I begin writing and sending blogs again.

Usually when I post a blog it also has a picture. I haven’t been able to figure out how to add a picture, but I am working on it. Be patient with me.

A FEW POWERFUL EASTER QUOTES

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Here are some powerful quotes to help us continue to celebrate our Easter celebration from last Sunday. (They are borrowed from CHURCH LEADERS and Toni Ridgaway) I found them to be thoughtful and uplifting.

John Stott – We live and die; Christ died and lived!

Pope John Paul II – Do not abandon yourselves to despair: We are the Easter people, and Hallelujah is our song.

Peter Marshall – The stone was rolled away from the door, not to permit Christ to come out, but to enable the disciples to go in.

I Corinthians 15:14 – If Christ has not been raised, our preaching is useless and so is your faith.

Rick Warren – Jesus did not die on the cross just so we could live comfortable, well-adjusted lives. His purpose is far deeper: He wants to make us like himself before he takes us to heaven. This is our greatest privilege, our immediate responsibility and our ultimate destiny.

Martin Luther – Our Lord has written the promise of the resurrection, not in books alone, but in every leaf in spring-time.

Watchman Nee – Our old history ends with the cross; our new history begins with the resurrection.

Madeleine L’Engle – Easter is always the answer to “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me!

Franklin Graham – We must not forget that it wasn’t the Jews that put him on the cross, and it wasn’t the Romans. It was my sins, it was your sins, the sins of this world.

Andrew Murray – A dead Christ I must do everything for; a living Christ does everything for me.

Phillips Brooks – Let every man and woman count himself immortal. Let him catch the revelation of Jesus in his resurrection.

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THE DISCERNING LIFE

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Near the end of February I requested another book that would be sent to be at no cost if I would write a review of it. The title of the book got my attention and I knew I wanted to read it.

The main title is THE DISCERNING LIFE and the sub-title is An Invitation to Notice GOD IN EVERYTHING. My interest in and desire to review the book was satisfied and having read it I added the phrase to the book’s title “Getting More Engaged with God.”

The author of the book is Stephen A. Macchia, founder and president of Leadership Foundations, Inc., a ministry which focuses on the spiritual formation needs of leaders and the spiritual discernment processes of leadership teams.

In the book’s introduction Macchia notes, “Far too often, spiritual discernment has been pigeon-holed into the exclusive realm of decision-making, learning how to make good choices and know God’s will methodically and predictably.

In the first sentence of the second paragraph he tells us “spiritual discernment is so much more. It’s the choice of the bold and courageous to know God intimately. It’s an invitation to all who desire a lifestyle that continuously seeks God’s presence, power, peace, and purposes.” He concludes the paragraph with, “We embrace the discerning life by learning to tune out the many distractions demanding our attention and daily practice a preference for God.”

A few pages before he concludes his introduction Macchia warns and challenges readers that “the discerning life needs to be cultivated.” A couple of pages later he reminds us, “Just as our physical home needs daily care, so too does our discerning heart. God invites us to abide in him as he chooses to reside in us.”

After the book’s introduction there follows nine chapters giving insight and instruction for growing in discernment. Chapters include attentiveness, listening, presence, hospitality, empathy, focus, process, and lifestyle. These chapters are filled will advise and help for those wanting to “Notice God in Everything.”

Following the nine chapters of instruction the book is wrapped up with a brief, but helpful Epilog and three Appendixes with a wealth of suggestions, ideas, and examples that will prove helpful to readers who have walked through the instructive chapters to grow in “The Discerning Life and “NOTICE GOD IN EVERYTHING.”

Before I conclude my thoughts on this book review I want to cite a few powerful statements from throughout the book that I hope creates interest. “Unless we learn how to discern God’s presence, his power, his protection, and his peace, we will not be able to discern the will of God” (pp. 7 and 8). “The Spirit himself dwells within us. And he longs for us to know him and perceive and discern his presence, his power, his piece, and his purpose” (pp. 17 and 18). “The lens for our life of discernment is not a rearview mirror focusing on the past, nor is it a telescope looking toward the future. Instead, it’s the mirror that forces us to look at the here and now” (p. 67). “Listening is skill number one for any healthy discernment process” (p. 180).

Christians who read and ponder THE DISCERNING LIFE will be challenged, instructed, convicted, and encouraged to cultivate his or her growing relationship generously offered by God. THE Discerning Life is a ZONDERVAN REFLECTIVE and was published by Zondervan in 2022.